I Got Fired…
As a lot of people are thinking about what they are going to do this 4th of July weekend I have actually been reflecting on where I’ve come in the last year.
This time last year I was working in an amazing city (Philiadelphia!) for a great Online Marketing Agency (SEER Interactive) where I had great clients (Sorry NDA’s) & amazing co-workers (too many to name).
Yes, life was good!
Got A Curve Ball
One afternoon after a long day of meetings of renewing client contracts and others clients upcoming campaigns I was instant messaged by one of the team leads asking if I could come and meet. I thought it was a bit off for a last minute meeting so late in the day but I said sure and headed over to meet.
I walk into the room and there were all the team leads and by the looks on their faces and the feeling in the room I could tell.
I was getting fired!
There wasn’t much sugar coating, in fact it was basically today is your last day. I was stunned and didn’t know what else to say except “thank you for the opportunity” and walked out of the office for the last time!
The Morning After Getting Fired
The next morning was hard. I don’t know if any of you have gotten fired before, but this was a first for me. Until then, I’ve always known what my next step in my career has been and I was in control of it.
The next morning I didn’t know what was next for me. I also had a lot of self doubt creeping in about if I am even good at my job or if anyone would hire me. I did a lot of self reflection.
Finally I decided to take all of these thoughts and feelings and recorded it verbally into my audio journal on Evernote. This was huge! I’ll spare you the 16 minutes of audio but once I was able to say out loud everything I was feeling I felt better and was then able to focus on what was next for me.
I then wrote down what was important to me and what I should be doing going forward. I came up with these 3 things:
- Be closer to family
- Continue to work with great people
Be Closer To Family
I come from a close family and I was the only one on the East Coast. So moving back across the country to be closer to them allowed me to be around for big events like my sisters wedding and I think even more important the smaller day to day events that I had been missing out on for so long.
With the time off I got to do a lot of traveling! In fact shortly after I was fired I spent the next month traveling up the East Coast through Cananda and back to Philadelphia. ( I took tons of pictures)
Continue to work with great people
I then created my consulting company Local Stampede and got to consult for more great clients, other agencies, and even do some speaking. It wasn’t pulling in as much as I was before, but I was a happier.
1 Year Later
So in reflecting back on what has happened since getting fired I realize it was actually what I needed to have happen in my life and was a blessing. It has made me a stronger person, marketer, and allowed me to live a happier life this year.
Main things I learned from getting fired:
- Vent, Reflect, Move Forward! Don’t focus on the past
- It’s not as scary as you think. I could still afford to eat
- Learn how to enjoy things on the cheap. For example by couch surfing instead of staying in hotels.
- Work when you can, but wait to commit to a new job that fits you! I was offered a several jobs at different companies but either the terms or the company weren’t a great fit for me.
As for work I’ve actually taken a full time position as a Senior Digital Marketer at SolarWinds.com and am moving to Austin Texas this weekend which I am excited about.
What’s Your Big Growth Story?
This experience really forced me to grow this last year! What experiences have made you grow the most?
Have you ever been fired?What was it like and what helped you to deal with it?
I look forward to your comments!
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